Holy Order - Holy Marriage

Do you make love like a man? Does it really matter how we make love, like spiritually? Does God care how we navigate this part of our relationship? I’m not talking about abuse and disrespectful behaviours, it is a given that that does not please God. I’m talking about how we generally do it. Our habits.  I expect that a lot of women make love like a man. And I think that this actually matters a lot. If God is male and female bound inseparablely together as One, then they are the masculine-feminine parts of one whole come together. Sex is the culmination of our ability to be One with our spouse in a mortal body. How we do it matters.  Masculine arousal and feminine arousal are drastically different from each other and for good reason. They are complementary and together create a richer and more profound and Godly experience.  God commands a man to leave his mother and father and cleave unto his wife and become one flesh with her.  Having sex, does not make you One or ...

Women are the gatekeepers of life, which necessarily includes death. The feminine is the gatekeeper of life. She is the entry portal into this world and across all cultures and time it is women who traditionally sit with those who are leaving this world. A sweet girlfriend of mine recently experienced a miscarriage. This role of the feminine is crystalized in its tragic beauty in a miscarriage, when her womb becomes a tomb. There is something very sacred about going through a miscarriage or the loss of a babe soon after its birth. In no other experience is a woman closer to her Heavenly Mother as she is the guardian of life and death within the portal of her own body. There is an old Celtic belief that the Mother is in the north, midwife to those who pass through the borders of the circle from life to death, from death to life.  It is a tragically beautiful concept.  It harkens to Mary Magdalene as she sat watch over her love as He left this world and then was brought back int...

The title of this post is a bit snarky I suppose, but I’ve been involved in several conversations the last few weeks and I’ve been feeling as though I’m lacking in some way, that I need to take a refresher course on debate and argument skills or something. A quick google search on the topic brings up a worthy list of skills like: critical thinking, research, argument construction, communication, listening, reasoning, empathy, persuasion, self awareness, etc. All good things, of course, but something seems to be missing for me. Ten years ago I was listening to a man speak. He said something that has remained with me ever since. He said: “First we must BE, only then can we DO.” I’ve thought about this idea of BEING first and then DOING, a lot over the years. The natural man loves to switch it up, convincing us that we must DO first and only then can we BE…’something’. The natural man also loves to-do lists, especially “self-help to-do lists”. You see, the “natural man” would like us to ...

If we must lead with the heart to become Zion, what does that look like in real life? How do we get our own individual heart right before God? Because it is an individual effort first and foremost, before it can be a group effort. In fact I believe that once individual hearts are right before God, there actually isn’t much difficulty involved in a group of people coming together and having one heart. All of the “effort” and “difficulty” has already been overcome by our individual effort to get our own heart right with God.  Zion is simply the fruit of two or more people who have their hearts right with God. So, how do we get our heart right with God? I believe it has to do with having an eye single to the Glory of God.  If our eye is not single to the Glory of God, we will have errors introduced into our understanding.  In Luke 8:15 (Luke 11:34-35) we are told: “The light of the body is the eye. Therefore, when your eye is single, your whole body also is full of light. Bu...

The word homothumadon is the word which is most often translated as “one accord” in the New Testament. Of the 12 times it is used, 10 of those instances are found in the book of Acts. It means: With one mind, with one accord, with one passion. It is used to describe a group of people acting with a unified purpose or in complete harmony. It conveys the idea of being of one mind or spirit, often in the context of prayer, worship, or decision making. This unity is not merely external agreement, but a deep, internal harmony of purpose and intent. If we break the word homothumadon apart, we find it comes from homo-”same” and thymos-”passion”. It means with the same passion, in one accord or in other words having the same desire . It is used to describe people who share ‘like precious faith”, creating a God-produced unity between them. It is interesting that this unity is produced by God. In the Covenant of Christ we are told of the 12 disciples, who Jesus had just called as ministers to th...

I’m going to share one of my favorite things in the whole world with you today. It comes from a document called The Gospel of the Beloved Companion. It is a gospel attributed to Mary Magdalene. It is similar to the Gospel of Mary Magdalene, but better. “Then Miryam, the Beloved companion, took a jar of oil of pure and expensive spikenard and poured it upon the head of Yeshua and anointed him. And the house was full of the sweet fragrance of the ointment. And seeing what she had done, the disciples therefore grumbled against her amongst themselves. But hearing this, Yeshua said to them, “Leave her be. She has anointed me for what I am come to do, and done what she is appointed to do. Only from the truth I tell you, whenever they speak of me, what she has done will also be told in memory of her. You do not know or understand what she has done. I tell you this: When all have abandoned me, only she shall stand beside me like a tower. A tower built on a high hill and fortified cannot fall, ...